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http://predanie.ru/dyagilev-aleksandr-protoierey/
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2022
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https://blog.predanie.ru/article/chrevougodie/
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2020
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https://predanie.ru/dyagilev-aleksandr-protoierey/rebenok-i-vzroslyy-chto-delat-s-chuvstvami/slushat/
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2019
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https://predanie.ru/dyagilev-aleksandr-protoierey/semya-dorevolyucionnyy-patriarhat-sovetskiy-matriarhat-detocentrizm-chto-dalshe/slushat/
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! need to listen
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https://blog.predanie.ru/article/podlinnye-tsennosti/
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ecwzPwEWRvs
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https://predanie.ru/dyagilev-aleksandr-protoierey/poterya-roditelskogo-avtoriteta-pochemu-i-chto-s-etim-delat/slushat/
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Razryv tradiciy iz-za izmeneniya tehnologicheskogo uklada
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+ voiny, revolyucii, repressii
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Alexetimiya - chelovek ne mozhet osoznavat i nazyvat sobstvennye chustva
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(net svyazi mezhdu koroi i podkorkoi)
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Chustva ne yavlyayutsya grehovnymi
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- grehovna - nasha reakciya
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Po bolshomu schetu obrazovanie - eto pro koru, vospidanie - pro podkorku (limbicheskaya sistema)
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- otsyuda - vospityvat nuzhno do 3-h let
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Roditeli mogut tolko podvesti (no ne privesti) detei k Bogu
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V patriarhalnom obschestve vospityvali knutom (porkoi)
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V detocentrichnoi - pryanikom (ustupnichestvo). No razmer pryanika dolzhen rasti
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- rebenok ponimaet, chto on vse ravno dobjetsya
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- alkogolikov i narkomanov iz detocentrichnyh semei kuda kak bolshe, chem iz patriarhalnyh
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Vospitanie cherez dialog (slozhny, no naibolee effectivny)
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- slushat prezhde chem govorit
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- miritsya a ne sporit
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- ponimat a ne ocenivat
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- prezhde vsego proschat
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http://predanie.ru/bez-avtora/psihologicheskie-problemy-i-cerkovnaya-zhizn-2017-g/slushat/
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Number 5
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Diata - Mat-Rebenok
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2 celi semyi
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biologicheskaya
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podvesti (ne privesti) cheloveka k Bogu
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Limbicheskaya sistema ne rabotaet (razvitie psihologich program - po razvitiyu dialoga v semiye)
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Teper cerkov podderzhivaet tancy (balnye, narodnye, no ne klubnye)
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- profilaktika razvodov i vnebrachnogo seksa
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principy dialoga:
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1. slushat prezhde chem govorit
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2. delitsya a ne sporit (v spore ne istina, a sorevnovanie)
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3. ponimat a ne ocenivat (sam vinovat, a ya tebe govorila)
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4. ??? proschat ???
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U zhenschin intensivnee obmen mezhdu polushariyami
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zhenschina mozhet varit kashu, otvechat po telefonu i smotret serial
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V limbicheskoi sisteme nerony zakoltsovany (signal mozhet begat po krugu)
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bolshaya chast infy - formiruetsya v pervye 3 goda zhizni
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http://predanie.ru/dyagilev-aleksandr-protoierey/semya-dorevolyucionnyy-patriarhat-sovetskiy-matriarhat-detocentrizm-chto-dalshe/slushat/
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alexetimiya - nesposobnost nazvat chustva (do 70%-zhen, 90%-muzh)
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dumaem - koroi
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chustvuem - limbicheskoi sistemoi
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Esli ya nachinayu osoznavat chustva - ya nachinayu rabotat.
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Chelovek uspokaivaetsya esli sposoben osoznat chustva
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4 principa dialoga (25:00)
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V semeinoi zhizni ne mozhet lish 1 chelovek podkladyvat drova v koster semyi
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V patriarhalnoi zhizni muzh/zhen silno zavisyat drug ot druga
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(obespechivat/rozhat). Uklad menyaetsya ne silno
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V 20 veke ochen silno izmenilsya uklad (obraz zhizni)
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Voiny vykosili silnyh muzchin, zhen-obrazovanie, pension-sistem
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My, hotya i bednee, zhivem luchse chem Lyudovik 14
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Lyudi hotyat zhit v komforte, no ne hotyat napryagatsya
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